Transforming turmoil into action – Göteborgs-Posten

Most children’s natural instinct is not to tell, according to psychologist Asa Landberg.

But there are tips and advice that increases the likelihood of abuse against children become known.

When it comes details of abuse, many parents worried. Asa Landberg’s advice is to keep a cool head facing the children.

– It’s natural to feel nervous and scared but you get to vent for together with other adults, she says.

If you suspect abuse knock the course alarm, but then it’s up to others to sort out what happened. Self will try to focus on the child’s mood and do not be afraid to ask for help even for themselves if needed.

For those who are worried but did not suspect that their own children are exposed, it can be a good idea to convert their concerns into action. Talk to the child about secrets. Secrets makes you feel good you get to keep for yourself. Secrets you feel bad, it is better to tell you about. It’s natural for most children is to do the opposite. Check back because this periodically.

Talk also about the child’s self-determination over their own bodies and about the areas that are private. If the child is four-five years or older, you can talk about that there are people who take the children while they do not want.

Asa Landberg previously worked for Save the Children. Now she represents the Children’s Welfare Foundation.